An unborn baby is human, and all humans deserve a chance at life. The mother's choice to have a child lies in their choice to have sex. They can very well regret that decision but that regret should not be a death sentence for the life they created.

Why are you willing to end a human life because of a "feeling"? Even if you aren't sure its what you determine to be deserving of a chance at life, surely you should err on the side of not ending a valuable human life

How early they happen doesn't matter to me, they would have grown to live a life like any other person and they were denied that out of the mother's convenience. I think the reason you think calling it murder is too harsh is because it is so prevalent in society. One would assume that something that is so normalised must be normal for a reason. But i reject that. I think the reason people are so fine with it is because there is no situation where you have to see it happen. A fetus in the womb is something you have to imagine, even if you see an ultrasound of it, it is still a layer of abstraction away from you seeing the baby naturally with your own eyes. Also because they dont look like what you would usually see as human, that means you dont extend your view of what a human is to include the developing human.