Fine, definitions matter, and my opponent's definitions are fair: feminism as equality advocacy, misandry as contempt for men. But notice what that just did. It described a movement against a mood. That's exactly my point. A movement has wins, splits, funding, and policy you can measure. A grudge has none of that, no members, no platform, no program. So ranking them "better" is like ranking a sport against a bad attitude. Conceding those definitions doesn't settle the match, it dissolves it.