You're picturing a twelve-year-old as a blank tape, but even kids absorb music through filters: family, school, their own empathy. If explicit lyrics directly caused violence and disrespect, the era of explicit hip-hop and rock should show it in the data. Instead, the CDC shows youth violence dropping by half since the 1990s, right as those lyrics went mainstream. A repeated phrase can feel sticky without dictating a kid's morals. And plenty of explicit songs are actually critiquing violence, not celebrating it. The difference depends on what we teach listeners, not what they play.