My argument is not that every religious institution must accommodate or affirm transgender people. Freedom of religion also matters, and I believe religious institutions should generally have the freedom to maintain their own theological beliefs.
If a church believes that being transgender is a sin and does not wish to affirm transgender identities, I don’t believe we should automatically force it to change its doctrine. There are already churches that welcome and affirm transgender people, so individuals can seek out religious communities that align with their beliefs and where they feel accepted.
Furthermore, forcing transgender people into spaces where they are openly unwelcome may not necessarily benefit them. Inclusion should not simply mean granting someone access to a space regardless of the circumstances; their dignity, safety, and treatment within that space matter, too.
However, I distinguish between allowing a religious institution to maintain its beliefs and allowing those beliefs to justify denying transgender people their fundamental human rights. Religious freedom should not automatically become a blanket justification for discrimination in every area of public life.
My position is that we can protect transgender people’s human rights without requiring every religious institution to agree with them. Protecting someone’s freedom does not mean forcing everyone else to approve of them, just as allowing religious institutions freedom of belief does not mean giving them unlimited authority over other people’s lives.