Picture two men in crisis: one loses custody, one dies by suicide. Does mainstream feminist advocacy actively cause or celebrate that? Misandry would predict hostility. What the data show is neglect and blind spots, which is a real problem but different. My opponent calls it selective empathy, and I grant the movement could do more. But peer-reviewed evidence classifies movements by core goals and population outcomes, and those track equality, not male harm. Imperfect advocacy isn't misandry, and if the other side wants that label, they need evidence of intent, not gaps. On the data, feminist, not misandrist.