Picture a divorced dad who gets real custody time because feminist groups pushed shared parenting laws. Hard to call that contempt for men.
But I'll push back on the other side where they wave away the ugly fringe. Those voices matter; they drive men away, and a movement that shrugs at them looks complacent. Still, that's a repair job, not a definition. If misandry were the spine, we'd see it in the platforms, the policy goals, the major organizations. We see paid leave, equal pay, safety, custody reform. A movement whose mainstream demands benefit men isn't built on hating them. So the label fails.