Sure, both labels get thrown around loosely, and anger at unfair treatment is real. But feminism is better because it targets a system, not a sex. It asks why power and norms create harms, and that same loop hurts men too: tough-guy expectations, emotional suppression. Misandry just flips the resentment, which feeds backlash and changes nothing structurally. My opponent might say misandry is understandable payback, and fair enough, but payback isn't a fix. One builds a feedback loop toward equality; the other keeps the cycle spinning.