Here's the thing that keeps nudging me: if a God really wanted a relationship with everyone, you'd expect the evidence to be obvious no matter where someone grew up. But it isn't. Where you're born pretty much predicts which god you'll worship, and sincere seekers honestly asking end up with nothing they can point to. That looks far more like belief being a human, cultural thing than a real being making itself known. I'd genuinely love to be wrong here, but the pattern speaks for itself.