I remember sitting in church with my grandmother as a kid. She'd close her eyes and whisper prayers, and I always got the sense she wasn't talking to me, but she wasn't just talking into the air either. She was asking someone to pray with her, alongside her. That memory shapes how I see this whole debate.
Look, when you pray to Mary, you're not worshipping her. You're asking a fellow believer for intercession. We ask friends to pray for us all the time. We send prayer requests to our church communities. Mary is just the ultimate prayer partner. Honoring her is not the same as adoring her. There's a clear distinction in Catholic theology between veneration and worship, and it's not just a loophole. It's actually biblical. James calls prayer powerful when it's from the righteous. Who's more righteous than the mother of Jesus?
The early church did this too, historically. The catacombs show prayers to Mary. This isn't a later invention. It's a practice rooted in the earliest Christian community.