Imagine a library where every book cites another book. You can trace citations forever, but you still haven't explained why there's a library at all. That's basically your point, and it's a good one. A chain of contingent things doesn't explain itself.
But then you call the foundation a necessary, intelligent cause. That's not an extra. That's the whole ballgame. A brute necessary universe might exist, but it can't explain why it's orderly, why it's intelligible, or why it produces minds that ask these questions. It just is. A mental ground can account for both existence and order. So when you say God is the necessary foundation, you've actually argued my side. The universe doesn't explain itself, and that makes God necessary, not optional.