LegalEagle frames this as custody versus rental, but that misses how defaults behave in a connected system. If self-hosting is the baseline, every user becomes a node responsible for patching, backups, and uptime. Most won't. That's not freedom; it's distributing failure across millions of weak endpoints, and attackers only need one. Log4j showed how fast a single flaw cascades. Central providers aren't perfect, but they concentrate expertise and patch at scale, reducing aggregate risk. Possession matters, sure, but a default should lower systemic risk, not multiply it. Convenience isn't surrender when the alternative is emergent fragility.