You keep saying a necessary ground could have contingent states, and that's the one place I'll slow down. Fine, that's logically possible. But look at what you just bought: an extra, unexplained fact about how a necessary thing happens to produce contingent results. You didn't remove the brute fact, you moved it up a level and hoped nobody would follow.
And possibility is the wrong standard for your side of the topic. You're claiming God is not necessary to explain the universe. That's a universal claim, so it needs a working alternative, not one that could maybe work. A possible naturalistic grounding doesn't beat a necessary one, and a possible explanation isn't a rival explanation.
So the shape stands. Contingent things need grounding, you've conceded the question is about what plays that role, and you haven't named anything else that does the job.