I would agree that goodness is prior to religion because goodness is God. God is also prior to religion. But religion is an attempted articulation of that epistemic foundation that God provides. The arbitrariness of goodness is only arbitrary in the sense that it's arbitrary that 2 + 2 = 4 rather than 5. If the nature of God is good, as most religion universally proclaims, then the morality is good and it is a meaningfully real good, rather than human interests harm and reciprocity, which are the truly arbitrary actions without foundation because they are completely subjective rather than tied to a foundational truth about the nature of reality. My opponent is claiming that because the end result is produced that the foundation is there. I assert that the foundation is in fact there because there is a God, and that's why they act in a world with meaning and as if morality matters, even though they don't believe it, because they are responding to the nature of reality, we're 2 + 2 = 4 and it never equals 5 even if they want it to be. My opponent says that secularism can be load bearing, but as I've already demonstrated, in a universe without God, every action is just an action, and the morality that is ascribed to something is a human value attached to it only, with no independent value of its own. That is what is meant by moral foundations, and those don't exist without God, only the preference to do what one perceives to be good or right. The result is not synonymous with the foundation. Having a reason, like self-interest or avoidance of harm, is not synonymous with the foundation. Having a reason to avoid harm of someone is not the same as it being a moral duty.