A lot of people treat this as just a choice, but I keep thinking there is already a life developing there. I admit the other side may have fair points about hard situations, and I am not sure how to argue through all that. My gut just says ending it feels wrong.
Well I have to start with the basic question, if you were in a burning hospital, to your left is a screaming baby in a crib and to your right is a fridge with a jar filled with 100 fertilized embryos, which to do you run to first and why?
Imagine a pregnancy where everything is uncertain, and the other side says the fetus is not a human yet. That is a fair point, and I honestly do not know how to argue against it. I still feel a life is forming there and ending it seems wrong.
Everything is always uncertain with any pregnancy. A fetus has less than a 50% viability rate anyway. That sucks but that's reality. It's more common for a fertilised embryo to fail to attach to the uterus and end up getting flushed out in the next cycle, than it is for it to attach and grow to become a human. People need to just be realistic about that.
Take a sonogram where a heartbeat is visible; even if the other side's hospital question is fair, that image makes me pause. I don't know how to argue the embryo math, and I admit they have a point. It just still feels like a life is forming there.
Imagine someone watching an ultrasound and hearing a heartbeat at a few weeks; to me that looks like a life starting, even if the other side's point about early failure is fair. I honestly don't know how to argue that, it just feels wrong to end it.
We aren't talking about a fetus that has gotten to the point of a heartbeat. That's an entirely different argument. I'm only arguing about the moment of conception.
Picture a clinic waiting room where someone is told the heartbeat is there but tiny; that scene makes me stop. The other side's point about embryos failing early is fair, and I don't know how to argue it. My gut still says that developing life matters.